Charity And Its Fruits Notes - Chapter 4
Edwards starts by talking not about patience, but meekness. To Edwards, one expression of Christian meekness is how patiently we endure and forgive the injuries done to us.
Edwards starts by presenting a litany of ways we can injure others. He gives special emphasis to speaking ill of others, and of harboring grudges.
He then goes on to show how we are to meekly bear the injuries we suffer from others:
- We must do nothing to avenge our injuries. This includes not only overt acts, but any speech or behavior that would show bitterness against the person for their acts. This does not mean that we aren't to reprove the offender, but that we must reprove politely, calmly and gently. Also, our reproofs should be concerned with the sin done against God, and not the injury done to us.
- This lack of bitterness must be internal (within our hearts) and not merely an external act. The Christian love I feel toward someone should not be interrupted or destroyed by bitter emotions.
- I should not let the injuries destroy my "inward calmness and repose of spirit." I'm assuming that this means I shouldn't let myself get worked up as I keep dwelling on the injury. Such lack of calmness makes it impossible to properly pray or meditate.
- We should remember not to do anything that will increase the hostility between us and the offender, as this can prevent us from making him our friend.
Edwards doesn't believe that all attempts at defense or vindication are wrong, but says that it is wrong in "most cases."
Edwards then goes on to explain why patience is called "long suffering." The (self evident in my opinion) reasons are that:
- We are suffer not just a few injuries from any person before taking action, but unceasingly, no matter how long this person injures us.
- We are to suffer up injury up to the point where "needful self-defense" is necessary. Even, then (as mentioned above) we are to forgo this self-defense in most cases. And if we do take defensive measures, it should be with an attitude of Christian love towards the person we are defending ourselves against.
Having the established the when and how-to of being lovingly patient, Edwards then moves on to explain how Christian love makes such long suffering possible.
- Our love for God causes us to imitate Him, and one of His most prominent character traits is His patience with the world.
- Our gratitude to God for His patience to us will cause us to extend the same patience to others.
- Our love for God leads us to humility, which causes us to be less resentful of the injuries we suffer.
- Our appreciation of God's sovereignty leads us to see His hand in all that happens to us.
- Greater love for God leads to treating earthly possessions as less important. Since people can only injure these earthly possessions, the more we love God the less we feel the injury.
- People are more patient with those whom they love. We are commanded by Jesus to love our neighbors and our enemies.
Edwards then exhorts us to be patient with many examples:
- Christ, who suffered mockery, intrigue, character assassination throughout His ministry without seeking revenge.
- We live in a fallen world. To become upset at every injury would lead us to have a life of constant misery.
- We have the examples of the saints (David running from Saul in 1 Samuel, Stephen being stoned) and apostles, who forbore much in the name of Christ. While we can never hope to match Christ's example, we can hope to match the forebearance of other men.
- We are warned by Jesus that we will be judged by the patience and forebearance we show to others.
Edwards closes by presenting 3 arguments people make against patience, giving his counter arguments.
- The injury is very great. Edwards responds to this by pointing out that our sins are greater, yet God still forebore them.
- The injuries will keep going on. That's why it is called "long" suffering, says Edwards.
- People will continue to injure us, possibly with even greater injuries. We do not know this for certain. Even if they do increase their injuries, we must remember that we are under God's providence, and He will not let us come to real harm.


